Have you ever thought about the power of words? Obviously, life would be very different without words. I know my life would be very sad if I did not have the pleasure of reading and writing. As far as life in general, can you imagine going back to drawing on the cave walls?
The mere fact that we have the gift of words is powerful, of course. If you don't think so, ask a stroke victim or someone who has a brain injury and cannot speak or even write the words that the loved ones long to hear. I also think of several families in my area who have recently lost sons and daughters in both tragic accidents and senseless violence. I am sure those parents would love to hear the words "Mom" and "Dad" one more time.
What words we use, and how we use them can also be powerful. This was brought to mind recently on my birthday. I was talking to someone about attitudes toward age, which reminded me of a newspaper column that I had written when I turned 30- at the time, a very traumatic birthday for me. In the column, I explored the difference between getting old and older. See the difference in those words- old and older? We all get older- that begins the very second a child is born. But, we each have a choice in getting old. What a difference in those words- and state of mind. My words seemed to strike a cord with many people, if the comments I received were any indication.
Another "aha moment" came courtesy of my great niece. I had commented to her about some words of wisdom she had shared, and part of her reply was, "Love you". Oh my goodness, you would not believe the smile those two little words put on my face- and even now as I write about it.
How we use words in our lives can make a world of difference to others. Are our words uplifting or hurtful? For me personally, I have decided to make a conscious effort to try to stay positive in thoughts and words, and to tell people that I care about them.
As a writer, my use of words is very important in conveying an idea or storyline. It was a challenge I willingly enjoyed as a journalist, and continue to treasure as an author of fiction. With my use of words, I can lead readers to a new experience- open a door to escape everyday thoughts or worries, even for a short a time.
So enjoy your words, and use them wisely. And remember to say, "I love you," often.
